The average man proposes two years, 11 months and eight days after first meeting their love, research has revealed
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Oh, and after you marry them, then you have to train them according to a new book.
What Ben neglects to link to is information that will tell us how to train our boyfriends to propose marriage in much less time than the average. What positive behavior should I reward to get that result?*
* I’m kidding. Not only do I realize that I cannot train my boyfriend to do anything (he’d recognize any attempt right away–he’s very smart), I also have no intention of waiting three years (or more for him to propose). I’ll do it if and when I start getting antsy.
I guess this means I’m above average: I proposed at two years and 19 days. ![]()
Me too, and I responded to being Shamu’d as well.
It took me about six years. And that included a breakup and her move to Atlanta.
2 years is less than 3 and therefore BELOW average.
I took 5 years, so I’m ABOVE average, though not as good as Chez. Well played Mr. Bez.
S&F–it’s all about interpretation. I definitely would put Rob in the “above average” category. And hoping that my BF will be spectacularly above average. Ahem.
Did you send him the link to this post, Lesley?
Lesley, don’t be such a girl ![]()
Jim–I haven’t. I don’t want him to feel pressured.
S&F–don’t you worry ’bout me. When push comes to shove, I’ll grab a pair and use ‘em to get what I want. ![]()
That may get that ring quicker.
Lived together 4.5 years and moved to a new city together. Yeah, she was gettin’ antsy.