Most folks I know have a handle on these here innertubes but will quickly tell you who they are if you ask politely.
But if they don’t, they don’t and that’s cool too.
I have some experience with being outted. I’ve been outted against my will a few years ago, when someone figured out who I was and posted my name and address and work information in the comments here and all over the place. I outted myself in a news story that appeared on the front page of The Tennessean, which I thought was going to be pretty definative, but then a couple of months after that, someone got mad at me and made noises like wouldn’t it be uncomfortable for me if folks knew who I really was, and I emailed them back and pointed out the article and that was the end of that.
Aunt B. talks about the outing of bloggers.
How do you feel about it all? I think it’s a Golden Rule thing. If you wanted to be outed, cool.If not, it’s not up to someone else to do it.
That’s just me.
I use a blognomen because I’m not too good at fixing my notebook or desktop and a lot of smart, nasty people know how to hurt those of us who are technodunces. Other than that, I could care less if folks know who I am.
Basically, if somebody doesn’t want it to be known who they are, respect their wishes. The exception being if they are engaging in illegal activities, in which case, let the appropriate authorities know.